It may sound hard to ask someone if they are thinking about suicide, but it’s a hell of a lot easier than attending their funeral. You need to ask directly with a question such as, “Are you thinking about suicide?” or “Are you thinking about killing yourself?” It’s just not something you can beat around the bush with.
And if you’re worried that it may push them to take their life, don’t be. Research proves that you’re a lot better to ask a mate than to ignore them.
If you’re worried about someone, Lifeline have some excellent advice at:
https://www.lifeline.org.au/get-help/i-m-worried-about-someone/
And, of course, you can always call them 24/7 on 13 11 14 or text them on 0477 13 11 14
Beyond Blue offers a range of insightful videos about suicide:
If you’ve lost someone to suicide, this advice from the Suicide Call Back Service may really help:
https://www.suicidecallbackservice.org.au/lost-someone-to-suicide/
Alternatively, you can call them on 1300 659 467
There are also some excellent courses, some of which are free. Visit Lifeline Direct at:
https://lifelinedirect.org.au/bondi/training
or LivingWorks at: